This is where
connection comes alive.
Some gatherings happen from the sofa. Some bring inspiring queer voices into the neighborhood. And some turn an online hello into a hug in a city you have never visited before.
See how we gather

There is more than one way
to meet your people.
Whether you are ready to talk, happy to listen or hoping to make plans in the real world, every Amistara event is designed to make connection feel warm, welcoming and genuinely human.
Virtual
Hangouts.
Our hosted virtual hangouts make meeting people around the world feel easier. Join from home, settle in at your own pace and take part in the way that feels natural to you.
- Camera on or off—depending on your comfort
- Hosted with care so you never have to carry the room
- A low-pressure way to turn familiar names into real friends
your sofa counts as a seat at the table
hosted by Kirstie Nicole · Founder
live inside the appMeet The
Changemakers.
Changemaker Events bring the neighborhood closer to LGBTQ+ actors, models, artists, creators and public figures who are using their platforms for positive change.
Kirstie Nicole hosts an intimate one-to-one conversation with each guest: a chance to hear more of their story, celebrate a project they are building and understand the change they hope to create. Then the room opens, and Neighbors get to ask their questions directly.
Not a distant stage. A thoughtful conversation you get to be part of.
A few of the voices
we have welcomed so far.
Every conversation brings a new story, perspective and reason to believe in positive change—with many more Changemakers still to come.

WorldPride,
Amsterdam.
around one table


Our first-ever Amistara meetup brought Neighbors from seven countries to Amsterdam—many meeting face-to-face for the very first time. What began as messages, profiles and virtual hellos became shared meals, Pride celebrations, long conversations and the kind of memories that stay with you.

Online hellos can become
core life memories.
Amsterdam was the first gathering of its kind for The Amistara, but it will not be the last. We are thoughtfully building more moments to gather—both in person and inside The Amistara—so wherever you live, there is always another opportunity to connect.
In between larger Amistara events, Neighbors often coordinate smaller meetups of their own—coffee, local Pride plans, a day out or a simple chance to finally meet the person behind the screen. More virtual and in-person events are on the way.
There is a place
for you in the room.
Start with a virtual hangout. Meet a voice that inspires you. Or say hello now and make plans for someday. You never know which small moment becomes the beginning of something unforgettable.
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